I can dismantle the patriarchy before breakfast - but ask me what to wear to a boudoir shoot and suddenly I’ve forgotten how clothes work.


But hey - priorities!

If you’ve just booked your shoot (or you’re hovering over the booking button), chances are this exact question is already spinning in your mind:

“What the hell am I supposed to wear?”

 

Don’t worry. You’re not alone — it’s the first thing almost every client asks. And the answer? It’s a lot simpler (and more fun) than you think.

 

"Can I just wear vibes?" Asking for  a friend


Honestly? Absolutely - Yes!


You can show up in a full lace set, your favourite worn-in band T-shirt , a silk robe, or absolutely nothing but eyeliner and attitude -  because boudoir isn’t about what you wear.


It’s about how you feel in what you wear.


So before you panic-Google “sexy lingerie sets” or speed-run ASOS, pause and ask:


What makes me feel powerful?


Not what you think you're supposed to wear - what actually makes you stand taller, smirk harder, or feel like you could strut through a thunderstorm in slow motion.


The truth is, confidence photographs better than corsets.


And the right outfit? It's the one that helps you forget you're wearing one.

 

You probably already own the perfect outfit

 

Woman with afro and black matching lingerie sitting on window and looking out of window Boudoir photography UK Liverpool

 

Let me tell you a quick story.

The very first model I ever photographed for my boudoir portfolio was my best friend (Hi Monique!). When I asked her to help me out, the very first thing she said, after enthusiastically agree to model for me, was:

“I have nothing to wear.”


Then, as a new mum, she (half-seriously) asked me,

“Do granny knickers and breastfeeding bra count as a boudoir look?”


It was funny, but it also summed up exactly how most women feel when they first book - like somehow, they’re not “boudoir ready.”


I told her what I’ve told every client since:

“You already have more than enough in your wardrobe. Let me prove it.”


She didn’t have lace or garters or some fancy bodysuit.

But she did have a simple, black, matching underwear set.

We chose high-waisted knickers that gave her the coverage she wanted and highlighted all the curves she loved — and the result?


She looked like a goddess.

 

The Boudoir Packing List (No Lace Required)




Boudoir styling doesn’t have to mean lace everything or spending a fortune on new pieces. Some of the most powerful images come from simple, intentional choices - pieces that feel like you.


That said, I always encourage bringing a bit of variety - we won’t use everything, but having options gives us room to play, mix moods, and pivot if something doesn’t feel quite right on the day. If in doubt: pack it. I’ll help you choose and style.


Here’s a breakdown to help you plan:

 

Lingerie


  • A matching bra and knicker set - nothing fancy, just coordinated


  • Bodysuits - especially high-cut or sheer ones.


  • High-waisted knickers - flattering and curve-enhancing.


  • Stockings, tights, suspenders, or garter belts - only if you love the vibe.


  • Corsets or structured lingerie - for a more dramatic look.


  • Lace bralettes - soft, feminine, and comfy


  • Lingerie with unique textures — satin, velvet, fishnet, or embroidery


  • One wildcard item — that thing in your drawer you love but never wear



Not Lingerie (But Just As Sexy)


  • An oversized shirt, button-down, or your partner’s shirt.


  • A loose knit jumper falling off one shoulder.


  • A blazer (bonus: wear it with nothing underneath).


  • A silky robe - short, long, sheer, or dramatic.


  • Your favourite band t-shirt, tank top, or crop.


  • Silky pyjama top and bottom  (If it's something you wear)


  • Jeans, leggings, trousers (paired with a bra gives ultimate casual sexy look)


  • A long, flowy dress - think movement, mystery, and mood



 

 

 

 

 

Personal touches & Extras


  • Heels, boots, or barefoot - depending on your vibe


  • Perfume bottle, cigarette, film camera - objects with story or edge


  • Jewelry you actually wear - not just “fancy” but you


  • A hat, glasses, or scarf if it adds drama or texture


  • Harness belt, leather pieces, face mask for unapologetic bold look


  • Props or objects that feel personal or playful - we can make almost anything look iconic

 

 

 

 

 

Do i have to get naked? (Short answer - no)

 

Ginger woman sitting posing on a green sofa and smiling when holding her hair up Boudoir photography UK Liverpool

Let’s get one thing straight - boudoir isn’t about taking your clothes off. It’s about stripping back everything that’s not you.


That might mean lace and lipstick. It might mean bare skin and soft light. Or it might mean staying wrapped in silk the whole time - and feeling like a damn queen doing it.


You don’t have to pose nude. You don’t have to bare anything you don’t want to.

This experience is about choice, not performance. Some of the most powerful images I’ve ever taken involved no nudity at all - just attitude, energy, and a look that says “I know exactly who I am.”


That said, if the moment feels right and you want to shed a layer - we’ll go there.


Gently, confidently, and on your terms.


No pressure. No rules. Just you - exactly as you are, at whatever level you’re ready to be seen.

And if you’re still panicking about what to pack? That’s okay too.

I’ve got you.


Send me a message, show me what’s in your wardrobe, or just say,

“Help — I have no idea where to start.”

That’s literally what I’m here for.


You bring the vibe. I’ll bring the camera.

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Whether you're still deciding what to wear or already checking your calendar for free day to book a session -

you don’t have to have it all figured out.


Let’s talk ideas, comfort, outfits, dates - or even just the fact that you’re nervous (that’s normal, too).


I’ll guide you every step of the way.

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